DO YOU WANT TO LEAD
by
Carl McMuuray
The need for godly leadership in the Lord’s church today is an issue which never
goes away. Every generation of leaders must be
constantly maturing and training others to take their place. Each new generation
must be brought to the place of recognizing their own need for
change and development if they would desire the rich responsibility of serving
the flock of God. Some of the most tragic errors in the body of
Christ have come about when both generations have ignored their God given
responsibility to do these things.
When a generation of leadership leads in such a way that all decisions and
responsibilities are carried on their own shoulders and no
younger leaders are developed then they are setting up the church for future
problems. There will come a time when the church will feel pressured
to appoint leaders and that is when men unqualified by the Holy Spirit’s
standards will try and fill the breach. More problems are right around the
corner. God doesn’t bless His competition. He will never give His blessings to
those who are not following His will. Disobedience has no right to
expect the same blessing as obedience.
Likewise, when a man thinks he has earned the right to lead by reason of his age
instead of his spirituality then problems are right outside
the door. One who doesn’t order his life and become “God’s man” first and
foremost has no business trying to lead others to change. One who is
set on defending his attitude and actions instead of improving them is in no
position to help anyone else improve. God’s leader is a servant
(Matthew 20:28; John 13:16), and the humility of a servant is not something that
one finds in the “natural born” leader, the crowd pleaser, or the
party-guy that everyone seems drawn to. It is a trait that must be developed.
DISCIPLESHIP JOURNAL carried a small article about finding and growing new
leaders that I believe was quite insightful. It gave some common sense ideas on
both who to look for, and who to become, depending on your perspective.
Consider the following excerpt…
“Resist the tendency to choose the ‘natural-born’ leaders over the less obvious
ones. Natural-born leaders are sometimes too controlling to be effective…,
while the quiet person may have the gentle spirit and sense of pacing that are
essential. Set aside leadership stereotypes and look instead for...
1) The conscientious. Who is always on time? Who is always prepared?
This person is committed and takes the group seriously;
2) The sincere. Who demonstrates the ability to apply spiritual lessons
to their own life? They will be able to lead others to do the same.
3) The transparent. Does your potential leader demonstrate a
willing-ness to share openly and honestly?
4) The receptive. A leader must let others speak. Who demonstrates good
listening skills?
5) The respected. Look for the person that others seek out for advice
and counsel.
Every one of
the above would fall into the Spirit’s list of qualifications for leadership (1
Timothy 3:2-13; 4:12; Titus 1:5-9; 1 Peter 5:3).
And yet, how often are these very traits overlooked and/or ignored.
There have been far too many congregations that ignored the Spirit’s
qualifications for leaders and simply looked for gray hair and
baptized children. There have been many men with gray hair and obedient children
who relied on tradition and “votes”, and have not prepared
themselves to lead with biblical knowledge and wisdom from God. Churches have
been surprised when later these men without the “character”
of leadership became the source of contention and quarrels. Likewise, there have
been numbers of men who expected to be trusted with the
service of leadership who were sorely disappointed when they were not chosen,
because they had not been willing to change themselves over the
years into effective leaders.
If
you want to lead, there are things people will and should be watching for. Are
they part of your character? If not, are you working on
changing yourself? If we are choosing leaders, we ignore any of these at our own
peril and that of the congregation that submits to such
unqualified leadership. God bless those young men who guide their lives and
families so that they may fill this sorely needed role in a proper
manner for themselves and their congregation.